When my kids were little and fighting with each other, one would say, “He started it!”
I would say, “I don’t care who started it, I want to know who is stopping it. That’s the guy that deserves something.”
A Thought About War
When my kids were little and fighting with each other, one would say, “He started it!”
I would say, “I don’t care who started it, I want to know who is stopping it. That’s the guy that deserves something.”
West Coast Grrlie Blather 
Now, that is a really wonderful idea